My best friend started doing Meth. Is there anything I can do to save her?
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I know its difficult to get honest opinion, given all the scare propaganda about drugs. But you should take this seriously. At 44 I've been around the block and have had several friends die from heroin overdoses, seen many friends ruin their careers from cocaine, and seen a couple of friends change forever after only several months to a year of sustained meth use. This will ruin her life. It's not like smoking pot or drinking a beer with friends. Not even close. Do anything and everything you can to stop her, even if that includes an intervention with family. She will hate you for this at first. But, in time, she may well come to realize that you risked your friendship in order to save her. Which could make the two of you closer. Or, she may rebel and continue down the path of self-destruction. In which case you'll have done everything you possibly could have done, and will have no regrets. Methamphetamine is bad bad bad bad bad. Help her. In any and every way possible.
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It's still early. She can still back off from that shit.
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Honestly, if she cares about your friendship she will hear you out. If not, an anonymous letter to her parents about her missing school, and her grades dropping because of her meth usage to her parents might help. Maybe talk to your guidance counselor at school. My sister was hooked on meth for a while, and it scared the fuck out of my parents since she was over 18. She stole my ps2, twice, while I was at school, amongst countless other items from our house until we changed the locks, and put cameras out front. Take advantage of the fact she's still underage.
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I'm serious about this. You will lose a friend for the next few years to meth, easily. Either you be a friend and tell her parents or she will transform into somebody you wish you never met.
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well all i can say is spend as much time with her and try to keep sight on her as much as possible just keep her away from it for about a week that should do it if she just started
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That shit is a life ruiner. I've had friends turn to junkie scum over a weekend because of that shit. Do whatever you can to stop the addiction progressing. If you can't, or she's not willing, then cut her off. It's very hard to do and it's heartbreaking, but for your well being, don't let her stupidity drag you down. Let me tell you a story. I had a very good, long time friend start doing more and more drugs. Eventually he tried meth. Insisted he was fine, that it 'wasn't that bad'. He dropped 40 pounds, started stealing shit to support it even though we were both working phones, and eventually incurred such a massive debt that he lost his place, his car, and got kicked out of his crew because he was too volatile. Eventually raped a chick and is now in prison. Not. Even. Once.
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Find actual meth heads and take pictures. She should see what that kind of future has in store for her. It's never pretty.
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"The only thing you can really do from my experience is have a serious heart to heart conversation with her. Tell her you are concerned about her drug usage and you are only saying something because you care about her. I had a friend who started using herion and confided in me one day about his problem. I told him "Listen, you're my friend. But you cannot do herion. You know this isnt right. If you don't tell your parents about it, I will." A few days later he came clean to his parents and went to rehab etc... He's been clean a few months but still struggles. And he was only using for a few months prior. Ultimately it's her life and you have to realize that. But, especially if she is submitting to peer pressure. You can also be a GOOD influence on her too. Sometimes, that makes all the difference "
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Just because she did meth a couple of times doesn't mean she's lost to it and needs saving. When I was in HS I tried just about everything, excluding Heroin ( It was just way too junky and clinical for me). So I totally understanding the want to experiment. When I did meth I did it for a summer, when I was your age, 17. I took it maybe a half a dozen times during the summer but stopped when a girl I knew, who had been doing it much longer, wanted to start shooting it. I had done it a couple times since, but find it way too powerful and involved-the withdrawals take too long to get over, basically making you feel like shit for a couple of days. I wouldn't be worried about her quite yet, she's 17 and changing a lot as a person and drugs are most likely just part of that.
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