My wife was murdered and I want to become a super villain. What's my first step?

Look, I know life deals some really shitty cards sometimes, but talking about becoming a villain is just the grief speaking. I’ve seen enough people go through absolute hell, and trust me, digging a hole for yourself won't bring anyone back. You're just spiraling because the pain is still raw, but don't let this turn you into something you'll regret when the fog eventually clears.

The first step isn't some comic book villain origin story. It's finding a good lawyer and making sure the people responsible actually pay for what they did. Channel that anger into the legal system or finding justice instead of going off the deep end. You start walking down that dark road and you're just going to lose whatever peace you have left.

Take a breath and talk to someone who isn't just going to feed into those thoughts. Everyone hits rock bottom eventually, but you don't have to start building a lair down there. Just try to keep your head above water for today, tomorrow might look a tiny bit less like a disaster.