Ladies , wanted to get consensus on this, How scary is it when men raise their voice in an argument (Or any context)?
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"It's scary. It takes a lot for me to get angry enough to yell so I get extra nervous when someone is yelling and it's over something petty. For example, I was bartending on a busy ass Friday night. Accidentally swiped this man's card on the wrong check. I know exactly how to fix this, so I do, and then let the man know. Most people understand and say ok. This guy yelled at me while I kept trying to explain his card would not be charged twice. His wife and her friend didn't say anything at all and just stood a couple feet back at a table watching us. But he's screaming and saying he's going to sue me (his bill was $14) and eventually i was able to call my manager over. But the whole time that happened I'm thinking "I feel sorry for his wife. Is he physically abusive to her? What happens when she does something he doesn't like?" If he's so unable to control himself over something so small and fixable, I'd hate to see him when there's an actual problem. "
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Not at all I was raised to stand up for myself so if a man raises his voice I will raise mine higher
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"Pretty terrifying. It's not that I assume that they're going to hurt me, but it's scary/intimidating enough to throw me into a panic or freeze when they're loud and imposing because I know if they were agitated enough to hurt me, even "accidentally" in the moment, they absolutely could. "
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Pretty fucking terrifying. Is someone going to get hurt? Is something going to get thrown? What's going to be broken? It definitely elicits a fight or flight response pretty much immediately.
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Depends on the man, really. If I know them to be nonviolent and mentally stable, or if I feel pretty sure I could take them in a fight, then not too scary. A very angry person driving a car is terrifying. An angry, yelling man who is having a mental health episode can be pretty scary, especially if he is big and could easily overpower me.
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Just saw an Instagram post about this, so I really want to see what people say
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Ah yes, only women are afraid when people raise their voices
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Im the one who raises there voice a little to easily so instead of arguing for my point, i prove it on the spot or just give up and let them have it :/
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I'm a man and being unable to control yourself, to me, is a sign of weakness. So as a result, I lose respect for those kind of people. After all, calmness is the hallmark of those who are mighty.
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Sorry, I'm a man, but it is scary/off-putting for me, too. I have no interest in being around people who do this, at all, regardless of gender or even physical prowess. People should learn to control their anger and not to try to intimidate people.
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