Guys , is it ok if girls make the first move to you? why or why not?

Honestly, it’s totally fine and honestly, most guys I know would be thrilled if a girl made the first move. There’s this weird outdated pressure for guys to always initiate everything, but that just leads to a lot of missed connections because half the time we’re too oblivious or scared of rejection to say anything ourselves. If a girl approaches me, it honestly shows a lot of confidence, which is a huge plus in my book.

I think some guys might get intimidated by it, but those are probably the ones who are stuck in the past or lack a bit of self-esteem. For me, it takes the guesswork out of the situation. Like, I’ve been in positions where I liked someone but didn't want to make things awkward by assuming they were interested, so having someone just be direct makes everything way easier and less stressful for everyone involved.