Would you stay friends with a group of people who constantly make you feel like you have to ask them to include you?
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I think that in situations when you have to keep company with these people, it's best to raise your voice in moments when you agree with them and just say a lot of appreciative expressions to earn their sympathy. Then, once you don't have to ask for their attention this way, you can start sharing your stories instead of just replying to theirs. And so on
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"It's weird, you use the word "friends" and then describe people who clearly aren't your friends as the same thing in the same question. Is the real question: "Should I stop pretending people, who I must ask to include me, are my friends?" No. Or: "Are people who I must ask to include me my friends?" No. The answer is no. "
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Ive learned in these situations there is usually a friend group leader that everyone revolves around. Fuck that, stop being a sheep wanting their attention. Become your own person and live your life and invite them to do what you are doing, if they arent interested, forget about it and keep going
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"Absolutely not. They kept "forgetting" to invite me places and would post about their fun on social media when they knew it would hurt me. Dropped them quick "
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If you need to kill them, then yes, cuz staying close to the targets is a more successful way to complete the job.
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They could give a fuck less, i promise. I made the decision to leave my own group like this a few years ago. I dont regret it, not even a tiny bit. I had known those guys for 5+ years and as soon as i stopped putting in effort to maintain my spot, i never heard from any of them again. 1 more time, fuck em, be your own man.
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Unfortunately sometimes you feel like you have to stay with them. It's hard when you have no one else and you are a growing teen cause you want to feel included at any cost.
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"This describes literally every other "friendship" I've had since elementary school. I used to cling to those people and now I just kinda let them drift because being in my early 20's, I have enough stuff to stress over without adding that. Whoever stays, stays, and if not that's fine too "
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