I'm 20 yo, I support a family that doesn't care about me and I've been working for years without achieving anything. what can I do?
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Please realize this - you are STRONG and you are real man for working and supporting people who may not appreciate it. You have proven that you are a worthwhile person and deserve a better life. DON'T LOSE HOPE!! I don't know the answer to your situation, but I do know that your life is valuable and important - don't throw it away at this early stage. Your hard work will lead to better circumstances. Believe in yourself - you can achieve amazing things. It is obvious that you have something to contribute to the world - just from your words I can tell you are sensitive and intelligent and good. The World needs people like you and always will. Your life is important and no one can question this. WE need you. My prayers and hopes are with you no matter where you are. Never forget that you are in our hearts and we are rooting for you.
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Get out of there. You don't owe them anything. I usually hate illegal immigration, but seriously, come to the U.S.. You can get a job working at a newspaper as a photographer if you have a passion for it and you're good. BTW your English is really good. Better than mine, almost, and I'm native-born American...
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Move out, even if you have to live in the street. If you are paying all the bills kick them out. Why do you need them at all?
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Read The Metamorphosis by Franz Kafka, and leave before you turn into a cockroach.
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Fuck them (not in a good way... That'd be incest). Move the hell out and start your own life, free of negativity, pessimism, being undervalued. Start something beautiful. I don't doubt you have the tools you need to do this, maybe just lacking confidence. You're as amazing as the majestic flying platypus (which has to be invented to show you how creative and free you can and will be in the near future). I expect to see an update to this saying you're now living the life of Chester the fucking cheetah. It won't be easy, being cheesy, but damn is it cool/worth it as fuck.
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"there's a saying "Don't bite the hand that feeds." Fuck em, retract your hand, build your life into something successful. Then if you want to forgive after that, cool help em out. But in the end, when they die and you supported them the whole time you will be left with nothing and nobody. Better start building yourself a future now so maybe one day you can actually enjoy their company. You have to make yourself happy, it's not selfish, it is however selfish for them to have a power over you that keeps you from being happy with your own life. Good luck man. "
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Instead of asking us what can you do, you need to be asking yourself what you are willing to do, both physically and mentally. This is similar to relationship when you hear someone say they are treated like shit but they don't know what do about it...Well deep down you know what to do about it, you need to take the steps and make it happen. Cut them off, get out of there.
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""If you saw Atlas, the giant who holds the world on his shoulders, if you saw that he stood, blood running down his chest, his knees buckling, his arms trembling but still trying to hold the world aloft with the last of his strength, and the greater his effort the heavier the world bore down upon his shoulders - What would you tell him?" I...don't know. What...could he do? What would you tell him?" To shrug." -- Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged "
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