who are not in love with their SOs, why are you still with them?
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Honestly because we just had our second child and I haven't been working so that I can stay home and care for him. I don't have the money saved up that I need to move out and my own place for me and the kids yet. But I am actually going back to work part time today and then will return to full time work in a few more months. So until I have a new place lined up we're stuck here. I feel bad that I essentially only staying with him because we have no where else to go for now, but he's been treating me terribly for years and has now started treating our 7 year old son badly too. So it's the last straw for me, I should have left him years ago but I kept believing him when he'd tell me he'd work on his behavior and treat me better. I feel stupid for staying as long as I have and letting someone that is supposed to be my partner, the father of my children and who is supposed to love me treat me so awful and clearly shows no respect for me.
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I had a child with him but, eventually, I got tired of the lying. It took a heavy toll on my mental health so I did leave.
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My soon to be ex-husband and i had been together for almost 8 years when we both decided to get a divorce. Had been high school sweethearts. But We both were going in different directions in our life and it was time to move on. I knew right after we got married I was only 20 at the time that I think i was more in the idea of being married and in love than actually being in love and happy.
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Not in a relationship. But, I dated my ex for 8 years. Numerous red flags that it wasn't going to work. Fear of loneliness is a powerful thing. Ended terribly, but definitely taught me to prioritize everything else rather than putting all my eggs in a basket with no bottom just so I could avoid being alone.
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I've been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now. Neither of us have said the magic three words. It's because in the summer both of our lives are going to change out of our control. She's a med student and starts rotations. I'm military and will transfer then. So no matter how much fun we have as a couple together, we have this dark cloud hanging over our heads. We've talked about it quite a bit, and both agree that just because the hard out is up ahead, doesn't mean still can't have fun together.
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a bit of a different story here. i DO love my SO very much, but we share absolutely no interests, i like to play videogames, smoke weed sometimes, im not lazy but very introverted and going out means a lot of stress and no fun for me, i also don't like to travel that much. my girlfriend is the opposite. she doesnt care about games, could never smoke a joint or drink a beer and she loves going out with friends and does want to travel a lot. we're different in every imaginable way. its really hard for me to keep the relationship going although i know i love her to death.
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She had me convinced everything was either normal or my fault. Then she cheated and is playing the victim because I read some of her messages after I found out she lied. Now it takes a year to divorce where I live so technically still married for a year... Anyone reading this for personal reasons... Just get out
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I went through a period of being out of love. Only to find out that the definition of love changes over the years. Glad I stayed.
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Good question OP. I'm in a relationship for the last 14 years and what I have to say is, Love is amorphous, it changes what it is and is hard to pinpoint sometimes. Sometimes you will be mad at each other, sometimes you will share laughter and smiles and hugs and kisses, sometimes you will be underwhelmed, sometimes you will be bored... sometimes you will be full of pride and appreciation, other times you will take them for granted. sometimes the sex will be great, other times samey. But life goes on... can anyone truly say they are in love constantly and without interruption always, or is it something that ebbs and flows. I think the latter. But I am always loyal and feel allegiance to my partner and family, I always have the attitude that I am committed and we are on this journey together, and I certainly don't want to be with anyone else! So that's my 2 cents right now
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