who've smoked weed with their youth pastor, what's that like and why?

Honestly, that sounds like something out of a wild movie script rather than real life. I’ve been around a few different church circles growing up and even later on, but a youth pastor sparking up with the kids? That’s definitely crossing a massive line. It’s supposed to be a position of mentorship and trust, so dragging that kind of stuff into the mix usually just ends up blowing up in everyone's face eventually.

I’ve seen people try to be the "cool mentor" before, thinking it makes them more relatable, but it usually just muddies the waters way too much. If you're looking for guidance or a space to talk about life, mixing substances with a spiritual leader just feels like a recipe for a really weird power dynamic. It’s probably best to keep those parts of your life separate unless you want things to get messy real quick.