Today is my 20th birthday. Give me 20 tips for things you wish you knew when you were 20.
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I've only got two things to add: 1) When it comes to girls, be patient. I'm a bit older than you are now, but when I was 20 I remember doing way too much. Don't seem desperate. When there's a hot new girl at your job, don't be the first one over there trying to chat up a storm. Trust me. It will pay off to play it cool and later engage her in some real conversation. 2) Never fall into the, I wont start doing this now because I haven't been doing it for the past x years already trap. What do I mean? When I was 17 I didn't pick up guitar because I figured, blah at this age some people have already been playing for 5, it's too late. Wrong. If I had started then, I would be super good now. This applies to exercising, keeping diaries, photography, anything. Bonus: Nothing comes easy. Success, except for a tiny lucky few, comes only through hard work. Stop coasting and get working. And never sweat it talking to new people- chances are they are as nervous as you are. Good luck.
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All this talk about using rubbers...hmmm. Keep happiness as your #1 priority in all things, work, love. Be ethical, your word is the only thing that makes you a man. Don't suffer fools.Do no harm. Love all women, regardless of looks...can't think of twenty things to pass on except happiness and love are the things to aspire to. Im 60. Best of luck to you bro.
Save your money. It will give you give you valuable freedom when you really need it.
You can never own enough underwear (for those that wear it). Carry a couple of $20 bills in a hidden pocket of your wallet for emergencies. Stash a spare front door key for your house/apartment somewhere safe, preferably near your front door. Don't get into shouting matches with cops. They always win. If you sleep naked, always keep your clothing and shoes near your bed so that you can put them on quickly in case of a fire. Speaking of fires, it's always cheaper to spend $20-$30 on a good fire extinguisher than to pay your fire insurance deductible. Go ahead and take that shitty day job to pay your rent/bills, and feed yourself, but don't give up on whatever it is you really want to do, ever...so long as that thing you dream about isn't being the next Charles Manson. edit: typo
Relax. Don't take everything so seriously. Enjoy life, it will go by faster each year.
You are not exempt from financial aid application deadlines.
The only way you're going to get good at sex/have good sex is to have a lot of it with someone you're comfortable with. Find this person and do it.
" Transfer to a cheaper school and get awesome grades. This will help you more in the long run than a "big name" school on your resume with tons of debt. Women find you to be a lot more attractive than you think. Just go for it. Your parents are not perfect, and how they view you isn't how the world views you. Start exercising. "
I'm 23. I haven't had a ton of time to learn since I was 20, but 3 years is still a long time. Here goes. Don't worry so much. Your life is important. Work hard. Be generous. Be nice to people. People are trustworthy. You have nothing to be afraid of. School is important. Think about the future. Your resume is important. Plan for the future. Make sure you enjoy what you are doing. Don't be afraid to say no to people. Don't care what people think of you. Smoking weed all day is not okay. Getting blackout drunk a few times a week is not okay. Go to all of your classes. Respect yourself. Don't smoke cigarettes. Think about what you value and how you can improve your life one day at a time.
Stop drinking alcohol and see how cleverer you get in a very short amount of time
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