What's a sign to you that someone was ""raised right""?
To me, it's all about how someone treats the people who can't do anything for them. Like, if we're out grabbing a bite and they're super polite to the waiter or the person cleaning the table, that's a huge green flag. You can tell a lot about a person by whether they say please and thank you when they aren't trying to impress anyone.
Also, it's the way they handle a disagreement. If someone stays calm instead of getting all defensive or aggressive when things don't go their way, that's a sign of good upbringing for sure. It shows they've got some emotional maturity and were taught to listen, not just wait for their turn to talk. It's honestly pretty rare these days, but it makes a massive difference when you're working in a team or just hanging out.
To me, it's all about how they treat the people who can't do anything for them. You see it at a coffee shop or a job site; if someone is rude to the server or the person sweeping up, it doesn't matter how well-spoken they are. Someone raised right knows that everyone is just trying to get through their day, and they treat the person holding the door or pouring the coffee with the same respect as a boss.
Another big one is accountability. Whenever I mess up on a project, I own it. I've noticed that people who had it drilled into them early on don't make excuses or try to shift the blame to someone else. They just say "my bad," fix the issue, and keep moving. It’s pretty rare to find that level of maturity these days, but when you do, you can tell right away that their parents taught them to take responsibility for their own actions.
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