What's a sign to you that someone was ""raised right""?
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" When I was younger, sometimes my cousins would come over and raid our fridge and cupboards for food like they weren't being fed at home (they were), and they'd expect us to give them some of whatever we'd made for dinner even though my mom had only made enough for us (my two parents, and my 4 siblings and I)... My siblings and I never would have done that at someone else's house. Offering your friends snacks/refreshments when they come over to hang out if you're going to have some. I always thought eating in front of someone who can't get anything on their own (since it's your house) was rude AF. On a related note: sometimes when I was younger I'd join my aunt on her "mystery shopper" runs, and she'd always stop to get food for herself, but never offer me any. Like, wtf, I'm 10 years old, Aunt Tina... you think you'd offer me at least a small side of fries, you asshole. I was going to write more, but I think I mostly just realized I don't like my extended family. "
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That they don't fucking cheat.
They don't judge off past decisions, willing to give someone a chance and reserve judgement on actions made now.
Out on a lake with my son and he turned his jet ski around in the opposite direction we were heading...so he could pick up some plastic trash floating in the lake. He hangs out and eats at his girlfriend's house a lot. I offered some grocery money to his parents (as I know how much 19 year old boys eat). She said not to worry about it that she enjoys cooking for him and did I know that he does the dishes for her after she cooks? Also, after he got his own car, he developed a hobby of stopping to help other motorists who were having trouble (jump starting their cars helping to push their broken down cars to the gas station, etc.) Sorry for the humble brag but he's a good kid.
How they treat waiters, valets, and other service workers. If you're rude to them it's a huge indicator of your personality imo.
When they don't assume being religious makes them a good person
They aren't an absolute nuisance to society.
Manners sir, ma'am, please, thank you etc. Cleaning up after themselves, such as going to a fast food restaurant and actually throwing their trash away instead of leaving it at the table. Also pushing their chair in when they get up.
They're respectful, show compassion and empathy toward their fellow human beings solid work ethic, they are doers and not settlers they are secure and knowledgeable enough about both their shortcomings and strengths to never feel so insecure that they have to put others down to elevate themselves nor do they view their abilities as so grandiose that they take on an elitist attitude.
They pick support, are polite, communicate and try to win the match. If they lose, they don't become buttcancer but continue being decent people.
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