Ten years of marriage. Love my wife, but we basically have a sexless marriage and she won't stop smoking, and it's gradually gone downhill in the past 5+ years... What's your advice,?
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"Read this http://www.womensinfidelity.com/ From it - Women's relationships today follow a very predictable pattern: They push men for commitment They get what they want They lose interest in sex They become attracted to someone else They start cheating They become angry and resentful They begin telling their partners that they need time apart They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after > making themselves and everyone around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages. If you are at the "lose interest in sex" stage, you have to ask yourself whether she's no longer attracted to you. The simplest way could be to ask whether she is or not. If weight or fitness is the problem then whether you can set goals over the next year, and whether she'd respond to a more sexy you. As other have pointed out though, you not having a job is key to your problem, and limits your solutions. "
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Did you marry her because you loved her, or because you wanted to fuck her often? Also, stop blaming your problems on ADHD.
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You're asking for absolution. Divorce your wife. Move on.
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Marriage consoling, if that doesn't work out, then divorce.
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As far as the sex part goes. How heavy are you dude? Did you turn into a fatass after you got married? Go talk to your GP and work out a way to get yourself into shape.
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TLDR. Why do you accept this persons behaviour in your life? Sounds like you don't value yourself much?
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Go on a health-food kick, and romance your wife wildly. Jump on the couch, even, and yell about how you love her SO much, and how much you miss fucking, cuddling, snuggling, and going out for dinner. Give her a bouquet of flowers that you picked yourself, a lacy nightie, and a barrette for her hair. Don't let up until she either falls back in lust with you, or divorces you. Either way, you will have been true to your heart, and to your marriage.
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"Have you ASKED her to cuddle? People can't read minds. You need to communicated and that's what any therapist will tell you. Everytime I read these kind of things it always comes down to a lack of communication. You're not telling her what you need and you need to do that. You can't expect someone to know what you want. Just sit her down and tell her you wanna have more sex, or you want to cuddle more, etc etc Also, stop using your ADHD as an excuse. I just read down a bit and you keep saying "Oh well my ADHD" "Well because of my ADHD"...It's a really manageable diagnosis and extremely over diagnosed. Stop using it as a crutch because it's not even that bad. "
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I lost interest before getting all the way through: do you have kids? If so, stay married. If not, divorce her. In the US, half of all marriages in end in divorce. The other half end in death. Which way do you want yours to end?
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