What is the actual important things you told your parents/families, but they ignored you because the didn't think it's important?
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"The smell of cigarette smoke, especially day old, stale cigarette smoke has always made me really physically nauseous, and has given me headaches. My mom smokes, never did in the house, but did right out the living room door with it open... when I brought it up with my mom... I didn't even complain, I just said something like "I think the cigarette smoke smell is making me feel sick" she got uncharacteristically annoyed told me I was being dramatic. I know it was probably her defense for not being able to kick smoking, but it made me feel so uncomfortable at home. My mom also only used unscented laundry soap and cleaners around the house due to her sensitivity to scents. the result was that everything... from the air in the house to my clothes... smelled just slightly cigarette-y. I spent most of adolescence slightly nauseous, didn't realize how bad it was until I moved out... "
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My family never said they loved me. That's why I kicked them from my life. I have relatives. My family is my mother, my dog, one of my grandmas, and my dad
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literally anything related to my mental health. i'm always told i'm fine, theres nothing wrong with me, i need to stop doing xyz and maybe i won't have so many issues, and etc. instead my family waits until shit hits the fan with me and THEN they decide we should fix the problem and do something about it. and then my family wonders why i have severe anxiety, an ED, and struggle severely to do the most basic things. like geez i wonder. i'm also really angry over how this seems to be a common theme in this thread. like holy shit, our parents really did fuck up this generation, hey? safe to say if any of us reproduce we won't follow in the same steps.
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I told my mum straight up, crying my soul out, that she puts my stepfather over everything, that he hates us and that she doesn't care about our happiness. She got offended and said she deserves to be happy and if I don't want that I should move in with my dad...
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When I was a young teenager I told them that my then- youth pastor (amoung others) was abusing me. They didn't believe me and shrugged it off as angsty teenager stuff as I was very mentally ill already.
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Me: I have sever anxiety. Them: you don't pray enough.
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I usually joke with my mom, telling that iam pregnant. I usually lie and make fun with her. The day when I really got pregnant, I called her and told her, still she didn't believe, haha.
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That I want to see a therapist or something similar. Usually if someone asks they need it and it probably shouldnt be put so far to the backburner for almost two years now. I have clearly insinuated to my parents that i have issues but they clearly don't care enough to make an appointment.
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I was sent home from school one day because I had a 103F fever, body ache and chills. Mom dumps me in my room and tells me to sleep it off. Comes back an hour later and tells me to get up as she's taking me to primary care. Apparently after getting home she saw a news segment about a local meningitis outbreak at another school. Turns out it was just the flu. But the point is the woman was a-ok with letting me suffer until there was a possibility of me dying from her inaction.
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""You should take your dog to the vet" "Nah, we will see how she goes" The dog was having seizures by the way and i had to deal with them by myself most of the time. She was diagnosed with epilepsy. She has some extremely minor brain damage and is happily cute and safe. But i mean comon. Seizure = go to the vet "
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