How did you know your current SO was into you?

Honestly, with my current partner, it was all about the subtle shift in their body language. We were just friends for a while, but I started noticing that whenever we were in a group, their feet were almost always pointed toward me, even if they were talking to someone else. It's one of those subconscious things people do when they're really tuned into someone. Plus, they started remembering these tiny, random details I’d mention in passing—like how I take my coffee or a weird fear I mentioned once—months later. That kind of intentional listening is usually a pretty big giveaway.

The "eye contact" thing is super cliché, but it’s definitely real. There’s a specific way someone looks at you when they’re trying to read your reaction to everything, almost like they’re checking to see if you’re finding the same things funny or interesting. When we started hanging out one-on-one, the silences never felt awkward, which is rare. They were always the one initiating the next plan, too. If someone is genuinely interested, they make the effort to clear their schedule, no matter how busy they are. It’s less about grand gestures and more about that consistent, quiet presence.