What's the point of loving youself if the yourself that you love now isn't at par to anybody's standards and no one wants/loves you?

Firstly, what's to say nobody loves you? Perhaps they're just not brave enough to tell you yet Otherwise, if nobody loved you, time to put yourself out there until someone does. Confidence will make you stand out and make you more approachable What worked for me was thinking about the kinds of girls I'm attracted to (not gay, just appreciate the woman form) and i made myself look like that as much as i could, and it really did make me feel better with myself