If you found out a close friend is cheating on their bf/gf/so, would you spill the beans? Would this be a friendship deal breaker? Does how well u know their bf/gf/so make a difference?
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How well you know the SO definitely makes a big difference. Also, how well you know their relationship. Telling the SO and causing a fight can make you lose the friendship. Personally, I think I'd be more likely to just stop being friends with that person rather than tell the SO, but every case is different. Like I know one couple who are only together because there's a kid, she's cheated on my friend before multiple times and she's manipulative and has pretty bad manic depressive. So when my friend was considering fucking someone else, I was all for it. Get some appreciation, dude.
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In my opinion, justice should be served. If I had friends, and they would cheat on their SO, I would tell them because it would be terrible to not tell them, it would be inhumane to cover up lies like this. If I was in a relationship and cheated on, I would be as mad at the ones knowing as I would be at the SO who cheated on me, and if they cover up cheating, what else would they do themselves or cover up for the (former) SO doing that would be immoral? Killing just for fun? Beating up homeless or poor people, whether monetarily or healthwise poor? How far would they go?
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I would probably yell at them for being a shitty person, and if they stop cheating, tell their partner, and actually regret their actions, I wouldn't end the friendship. But if they don't, I would tell there partner myself and end the friendship.
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I've been the one cheated on before, and it actually really hurt when I found out a bunch of people knew, and no one bothered to tell me. So yeah, in short, I would definitely tell them. So long as I knew for certain.
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Hell yeah id spill the beans!! I wouldn't want to be going through that and have someone know and not tell me. This would be a friendship dealbreaker because if they can do that to their significant other, what would they do to me??? And no, how well I know the significant other does not make a difference
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No I have (idiot) friends doing this. I'm not fucking over one of my boys for for some girl I know less. I will however give them a lot of shit for it and when they ask me if I think they are pieces of shit I will tell them yep.
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I'd discuss it with my friend and let them know what they're doing is generally, messed up. But I would ultimately mind my own business and not dabble in somebody else's relationship.
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"None of my business. I most likely don't know the full backstory as well. I'm myself in an open relationship, and trust me, I would be pissed if my "friend" would secretly tell my partner the "bad news", or worse, attack me with moralizing bullshit while i'm on a date with someone else. "
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