my father has been cheating on my mother for sometime now but I am not sure how to confront him about it, what should I do.
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My mum cheated on my dad for a long time. When he found out, the family did split up. My mum moved to a different country. And that hurt. But now I realise how much better it is. Your mum needs to know, I think you should talk to him and see if he is willing to be the one to fess up. It is hard and I am so sorry you have to go through this. Just do what you feel is right. You seem like a nice guy who wants what is best. Your dad is the one who is missing out, he obviously has one amazing son right here.
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He's not only cheating on your mom, he's cheating on you. There's not much you can do. Try to put him out of your life and move forward. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't want to be with you. That said, if you want revenge...put all the details of who he is, who she is, and what they've been doing on ripoff report. As soon as anyone googles him, it'll be front and center forever.
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Blackmail. Double up on that food allowance. Make sure your Mom gets a new car.
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Get him in in private, and just tell him that you know. Maybe tell him what you think/ feel if you want. BUT: He's not cheating on you- it is not your relationship he's betraying, so its not your business or right to interfere. You don't want to get in the middle of it, nor be the cause/ trigger for your parent's relationship fall-out.
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a very difficult situation for you. My only caveat here is not to be the bearer of bad news for your mother. Perhaps you and your brother could very calmly let him know that you know. Just that. We know. I really hope you all manage to work your way through it somehow
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Leave the grown folk business to the grown folks. No good will come from you getting involved.
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You do nothing. It's none of your business. I understand that it may upset you but you're not married to your father, so it's not your responsiblity to notify.
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Either you let him wait and let time reveal. you just do it and confront him about it. I know I would confront him about it if it was my dad. Do it for your and family sake.
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Your family is allready split up. The only right thing to do is make him confess to your mom.
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