I've been married 8 years, and last night, for the first time, my husband beat me. I need some advice.
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I don't know that there's anything my wife could say to me to make me hit her. Though she could probably push enough buttons if she wanted to to get me going in a good shouting match. Something is wrong, and assuming you're not just being dumb and your character judgement is still to be trusted... even then, whatever that wrong thing is, there isn't any fixing it. He's going to apologize. He's going to beg you to take him back, for his sake and then for the children's. He'll promise to change and whatever else it is that he thinks you want of him. If you take him back, you'll get at least 3 months of peace and doting attention. Maybe 6 or even 12 months. By week 4, you'll have convinced yourself that it will never happen again. By week 6, you'll have convinced friends and family that it won't. You've been dealt a bad hand. Now's not the time to double down.
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why did you leave your children there? Seriously. If he HIT you, why did you leave your children behind with him?
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I would say anger management, or the very least couples counselling. This can go bad really quickly so just be careful.
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Were you angry enough to hit him before he hit you? The only reason women don't result to physical abuse is because they fear of retaliation. Then there are those that don't give a fuck, and hit their partners and think it's okay.
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Similar posts have been made before and they all mentioned some kind of mental problem that could have occured if this change in personality was so sudden. I'm no doctor and have no idea what I'm talking about...but maybe get him to see a doctor?
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If you KNOW that you have never seen this side of him before, and you can be sure he has realized his mistake, it doesn't sound to me like he will hit you again.
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Just a friendly reminder to put a thought-provoking question in your title, as per the rules in the sidebar. This is an experimental bot, so it might get things wrong - sorry if it did, but next time please try and get a question mark in.
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It really depends on you but I think you should reach out and talk with him. Meet in public and discuss what happened. You owe it to your kids to at least talk. If you truly believe that he is sorry and that it won't happen again I'd try to work it out.
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