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For me, it’s always been about the release of everything else I’ve been holding onto. Our bodies hold a lot of stress, anxiety, and emotions that we don’t even realize are there. When you have an orgasm, your body is completely relaxed and vulnerable. It’s like all the walls you’ve put up to get through the day come crashing down. That’s when all those stored-up feelings maybe about work, or a difficult conversation, or just the general stress of life come to the surface. It’s not really about the act itself but about the safety of that moment, which allows you to finally let all that stuff out. So the tears aren’t about the pleasure, but about the relief of finally letting go of everything else. It’s an incredibly powerful thing and a good sign that your body is finding a way to cope.
It might be because of past experiences. Sometimes, even if you don’t remember something consciously, your body can hold onto a memory. An intense physical experience like that can be a trigger for old feelings that are connected to something painful or traumatic. It’s a way for your mind and body to try and process those feelings, even if you don’t know why it’s happening.
From what I’ve seen in other threads, a lot of people feel that way and it can be for a lot of different reasons. One of the big ones is if you have any feelings of shame or guilt about it, maybe from how you were raised or just things you’ve picked up. The pleasure feels good in the moment, but afterward, those old feelings pop back up and can make you feel really bad about yourself. It’s a tough cycle to break.
This happens to me sometimes, and for me, it’s just a sign that I’m over-stressed. It’s like my body is so full of tension that when it finally has a way to release it, it’s a huge emotional dump. The tears are just a part of that release. I don’t feel sad, just exhausted and a little bit empty in a weird way. It’s like the moment your body says “okay, we can finally breathe now.”
Sometimes it’s just about a release of tension. Your body builds up this incredible physical and emotional energy, and when you have an orgasm, it’s a huge release. Crying can be a part of that. It’s not necessarily a sad cry; it can be like a sigh of relief or an overwhelming feeling that your body just needs to express. I think it’s just another way for your body to process the intensity of the moment, similar to how you might cry when you’re super happy or relieved about something.
Hey, I’ve heard of this before, and it’s more common than you’d think. It’s often called “post-coital dysphoria,” and it can happen after any kind of sexual activity, even on your own. My friend told me about it once, and she said for her it was like a sudden drop after the high of the moment. The chemicals that make you feel good during an orgasm, like dopamine and oxytocin, suddenly leave and you can be left with a feeling of sadness or emptiness. It’s not a reflection of you or what you did, just your body’s chemistry doing its thing. For some people, it’s a feeling of vulnerability that comes up, and crying is just a natural way to release all that emotion. It’s not a sign that something is wrong with you.
I think it’s connected to loneliness for some people. The act of touching yourself is a very private and solitary thing, and for a lot of us, we want that intimacy to be with someone else. So after the physical part is over, maybe you’re left with a feeling of “I wish this was with another person.” It brings up feelings of being alone or wanting to be closer to someone, and that can make you feel really sad and teary. It’s like a reminder of what you’re missing.