People who can’t be themselves and have to alter themselves to suit their family, what is it that your family doesn’t like/disagree with that you have to alter/hide from them?

My opinions, they are basically the opposite of my dads and I would get no where trying to argue or talk about them. I have tried that in the past with other opinions and it just ends up bad. So I lowkey pretend to agree when he says his shitty opinions, which is often. He’s also lowkey a Karen and a typical boomer put together in one body. He also doesn’t know I like girls, he would accept me and all but still probably have the mindset that I’m just pretending so that I follow what’s hip with the kids these days and stuff. And since I hide all that from my dad it kinda automatically gets hidden from the rest of my family too